most recent 30 from http://www.dearvesta.com 2010-07-30T19:28:00Z http://www.dearvesta.com/feeds/question/33 http://www.creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/2.5/rdf http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/33/long-gone lost 2009-12-28T19:40:27Z 2010-03-07T06:08:08Z

<p>my boyfriend is moving this summer and i cant go with him will i feel like hes in a diferent world.what should i do??????????????i will miss him more than anythang in the world..................</p>

http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/33/long-gone/35#35 JB King 2010-01-04T14:32:11Z 2010-01-04T14:32:11Z

<p>If by summer you mean the June-September season, you still have a lot of time to get ready in a sense. Why aren't you moving with him? Is this a permenant move or a temporary one? Those are a couple of questions that come to mind as while one can stay in touch through phone and e-mail, it isn't quite the same and so figuring out how to still see one another is probably worth discussing to some extent.</p>

http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/33/long-gone/53#53 r.usa 2010-03-07T06:08:08Z 2010-03-07T06:08:08Z

<p>It is normal to feel attached, but you might want to make sure your attachments are in check. That is, make sure you can still eat, work, and breathe when he is not around. = P</p> <p>As JB King suggests, discuss how you two will communicate while he is away. There are many options such as postal mail, telephone, email, IM, and webcam.</p> <p>Lastly, you can get through it! Try to stay positive and let your man do what he needs to do, he will be back in your arms in no time. You can view it as a trial in your relationship. Take each day day-by-day. You will need something to help ease the feeling of emptyness with the timeslot that you spent with him - pick up some new hobbies, find something new to do. Perhaps a new video game, books, write a story, draw pictures, sewing, model building, summer courses/activities, jogging, walking, swimming...</p>