most recent 30 from http://www.dearvesta.com 2010-07-30T18:54:46Z http://www.dearvesta.com/feeds/question/37 http://www.creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/2.5/rdf http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/37/love-with-or-without-him Marlo Rogers 2010-01-15T16:38:01Z 2010-03-07T06:01:19Z

<p>I need help trying to find out where my feelings really want to take with this guy Ive been seeing for sometimes, recently we just took seventh month break and I am really missing him, but he does treat really good but still cheats, I forgave and forgot the rumors an moved on, but he keep going through my mind and I think he is the one but with his mind messed up, please tell me what to do????</p>

http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/37/love-with-or-without-him/38#38 JB King 2010-01-15T20:39:03Z 2010-01-15T20:39:03Z

<p>Do you believe someone that cheats can still be good? It appears so, but give that some thought as well as the question of what focus does he have on your life. If he disappeared, would you quit your job and try to find him for the rest of your days? Granted that it isn't a really pleasant thought, but consider whether or not you can accept being with someone that cheats. What you call cheating is up to you, but just think carefully about if this was someone else, what you recommend for that person?</p>