most recent 30 from http://www.dearvesta.com 2010-07-30T18:54:51Z http://www.dearvesta.com/feeds/tag/long-distance-relationshi http://www.creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/2.5/rdf http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/33/long-gone lost 2009-12-28T19:40:27Z 2010-03-07T06:08:08Z

<p>my boyfriend is moving this summer and i cant go with him will i feel like hes in a diferent world.what should i do??????????????i will miss him more than anythang in the world..................</p>

http://www.dearvesta.com/questions/32/is-it-possible-to-maintain-a-new-relationship-with-someone-who-is-going-off-to-ba Mike 2009-12-26T21:22:31Z 2009-12-30T00:10:49Z

<p>So I met this girl a couple months ago, and we finally started dating the first week in December. Things were going really well with her, but just before we started going out she signed up for the National Guard. We discussed that a couple weeks ago, and she thought there would be a few months until she actually went off to Basic so we were going to see where things headed in the meantime. Then she got the paperwork, and it turns out she's leaving in 2 weeks. </p> <p>I know some people can make long distance relationships work, but this is still a pretty new relationship. Is it possible to still grow a new relationship long distance? </p> <p>And does anyone have experience with the Guard? Will she even have time to talk to me during basic? I can't imagine she gets to bring her cell phone... do they get computer access or anything so we could chat at night? Even going to visit is going to be expensive... I'm on the opposite side of the country from her base (Arizona, but I don't know the exact city yet) and ticket prices seem to range from $250-$400. </p> <p>EDIT: Just got great news! She's been bumped back for another couple months, so we'll probably be in a better position to judge things by then! May still need the advice on handling long distance relationships though... or at least this could be helpful for others. :)</p>